Leng Yein Divorce & Single


I hereby OFFICIALLY announce that I am DIVORCED.

I am responsible for every decision i make in my life and i dare to take full responsible for it. And as an Artist, i know i have the responsible too, to let all of you, my dearest Facebook friends, to know what's going on.

I am SINGLE since the end of August last year. I never told anyone because I know the whole world would be shocked and it will pressure the tough times more.

Every since the divorce, both of us try to still save our relationship, thats why u still see us together this year during Chinese New Year. But deep inside our hearts, we both know that we had changed and accommodate and sacrificed everything for each other. We are very strong, very dominant, very independant and know what we want all the time in time. We will always be who we are. That's why we are like two cute lil bulls who loved each other so much who tried our best not to go head to head on each other for 7 years.

Few weeks ago, we sat down and decide to both move on. We love each other alot and we both believe that argueing or trying to kept changing a person is not the solution to FOREVER ... We are two calm little bull =)

I just got back to Malaysia, I rented a small place and I've moved out. I know the public would spot my car and to AVOID speculations of 'Why is she NOT home with her husband and here at this small little place etc.", so i've decided to announce the divorce now. I am starting allover again all by myself. I want to do it all by myself ! All my bestfriends including him are worried but Don't worry. I am a survivor ! I just wanna see where i would end up from here onwards ... That's the excitement of life =)

We both part without taking ANYTHING from each other besides our beautiful memory because it was never about the money. Our love will not die ... We respect each other a lot, and we wish each other well ... He is a good man, and it is not anyone's fault whatsoever. So don't assume too much. We are still good together.

After i've signed d paper last year, i decide to get back into the scene without letting ppl know that I'm single just to see whether public still could accept me for who I am. That is why suddenly all of u see me flying allover the world and being so busy. That is also why i wasnt in Malaysia most of the time working hard and striving. In this half a year, Im grateful and thankful that I made it thus far in such a short time. Thank you for your support.

I used all my hard earn money in this half a year to open my own label KUMO BY LENG YEIN. I'm starting my life allover again ... With my own money, all by myself.

Oh yah, I bought the Pink Hummer myself so please stop asking what did I get from the divorce because I've had a happy 7 years of my life, and I don't NEED, or WANT to TAKE ANYTHING from him. Because I have my world with me for 7 years ... And now, I'm gonna move on to another stage of my life ;)

I used to have a fairy tale ... I used to have a carefree life ... I used to have a lot of things that ppl kept telling me they wished they have ... To me, the most important thing in life is to be grateful and be happy ... I am grateful for what I have and will always be ...

Starting over isn't easy ... But I wanna try to re-live myself. It had been so long since I'm single and kickin' life the way I want it to be ...

Now that I am off the "be responsible as u r someone's wife" sense, I will pursue my dreams and stop at nothing ... If u wanna tell me 'U shouldn't dress so sexy because u r someone's wife !' <--- Excuse me. I ONLY went back to modeling AFTER im back single. U dont know because i didnt tell ! So now you KNOW.

I will work hard, stand up on my own feet, and i will not lose hope ... Never will ...

Take life as it comes ... Take it easy. Alot of things can be bought by money but not happiness. Remember that. You will only be truely happy not by counting how much money u have in your life or how much u had achieved in your life, but by feeling the happiness that comes rushing from within everyday when you wake up, and feeling grateful and calm everynight when you go to bed.

You cant BUY the world with your money. But u can have the WORLD with you if you are truely happy ... Be responsible for your own decision.

It is not the fall, but how I get back up that matters ... I'm starting my life allover again alone, with my best friends and Facebook friends alongside me. Never give up ... This is not the end of my life ... This is only the beginning of a new stage of my life ... I love you ...

For more pictures follow me in instagram - lengyein , tumblr - lengyein and twitter @lengyein

The below is the actual explanation. But expressing a divorce in english sucks. It sounded so straightforward ... Gosh ! Read what i wanna tell u, actually, below, in this picture :
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10150658692144341&set=a.10150660505129341.417517.74485364340&type=1&theater


PS : Please SHARE this out so that i dont need to answer the same thing allover again ... Gosh ! thanks darlings ...

Love Always,
Leng Yein

12 comments:

Karen said...

I just can said I very admire you....you're really is a strong woman that i need to learning...jiayou,sister!!

Anonymous said...

Ya, after read your story, admit that ur spirit is very strong, stronger than anyone and kind, will respect n support u to catch your dream, just the phrase for the meaning of give and take for u ... Tks for sharing ... Jia you

Anonymous said...

Everybody can write how strong they can be and how to face life with strength. Hope what you write is really what you feel and practice. Good luck.

Anonymous said...

I have been guessing it, but this post sure confirms it. Everything happens for a reason. At least you and ur ex-hubby managed to discuss openly about going each other's way. Starting all over again is quite simple, just isn't all that easy. I know, I'm going through that right now too. Knowing you, you'll get up there in the limelight of success. No questions about it. See you at the top! ;) - Ed

Anonymous said...

I heard your ex is an asshole. Good that you are on your own.

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Anonymous said...

Fake Linku, I feel disgusting about your face and Linku , now u r more like Ah Gua/Shemale. Fucked Shame on you, as a man ... we will not marry with shemale like u . 死人妖 .I support your husband divorce with u.

Anonymous said...

Jian Feng was confused after his wife gave birth to an ‘incredibly ugly’ baby.He accused her of cheating and she admitted to spending £62,000 on plastic surgeryHe then claimed she got him to marry her under false pretenses.He won his case and was awarded a little under £75,000 by the judge.He was shocked by the child’s appearance, calling her ‘incredibly ugly’ and saying she looked like neither one of her parents..Mr Feng was so outraged that he initially accused his wife of cheating..Faced with the accusation, his wife admitted to spending around £62,000 on plastic surgery which had altered her appearance drastically.She had the work done before she met her husband and never told him about it after they met.Mr Feng filed for divorce saying his wife had deceived him and convinced him to marry her under false pretenses.The judge agreed with him and awarded him the damages. – dailymail

Anonymous said...

Appearance is just an empty shell.. Obviousy the husband married her because of her attractive looks. i pity the wife. How tough for her to went through such a hard time ending a married n having his own husband call her love child ugly.


The baby is still beautiful even it appears not as good as what expected because it is their own fresh. Appearance does not last forever…Loving n accepting each other whether is imperfection or flaws.. they are still the most important person in your love life.. F* that guy

Anonymous said...

LoL leng yein writes like she thinks she's the center of the universe

Anonymous said...

I personally think she is too self-centered and too eager to prove herself. Well, she doesn't really do anything to show her "greatness". I think she should just took "compensation" from her ex-husband, she deserved it and enjoy her life.Let be real, we all work for money, if we can have the money, why should we works. IF you didn't take the money that are given to you just to showoff infront of others, then you are stupid. I would took the money and then showoff.PLus i didn't have to work or do a plastic surgery. I can even buy myself a hot husband XD